Users R' Us.

we are all users .
as much as we hate to admit it , it's the truth . we use people all the time . some of the times it's pretty obvious .. like if we know we're only some one cause they like to take us shopping ( i've never came in contact w. a person like this , although i dream of it lol). but yu know what i mean ? sometimes we use people and we aren't afraid to admit it .

but we unconsciously use people all the time . we use our friends the most . it's like an exchange of usage lol . yu have your friends around , and you use them for times when you need a laugh or a shoulder to cry on . you use them when you need advice when you can't make up your mind on some things . and best believe , they use you, too . for the same things and more . it's all about self-interest . if you see someone who can better yu or a situation you have ( ex. give you a good laugh , complement yu if their pretty or something like that) then yu latch onto them . i mean think about it ; yu don't kick it w. ugly ppl , or ppl tht aren't fun or funny , or ppl that are never there for you . i mean sure you know people like that and may have a relationship w. them , but it's never really deep . they arent your best friends or anything . and best friends btw , in MY view , are just ppl yu use the most . lol it sounds terrible , (sorry jamie and johnathan) but it's so true . and we use our significant others for things like companionship, conversation , and (sometimes) sex . we use each other for experiences .. for good times . cause just think : how wack would this world be if we were alone ? VERY wack . i mean i'm not saying this for you to feel bad about yourself . embrace the fact that you use me ! and well .. embrace the fact that i use you , too . just as long as we're at some kind of agreement, yu know ?


this is MY philosophy . i know a lot of ppl wnt agree but ... i'm not asking you to . lol . i'm a user and so are yu . and that reciprocity makes it easier for me to deal with it . (=