has reciprocity died ?

back in the day , we all had the common belief that if someone does for you , you should do for them , also . you scratch my back , i'll scratch yours kinda thing . well the funny thing is my back is located on my cock . ahaha .. anyone seen Superbad? thats besides the point.. anyways, its seems as though we have lost sight of that as a people. now , we are SO selfish and so self-intrested they would rather NOT help someone if we don't benifit from it in any way. you know the people. the one's that when you ask a favor they say "what am i getting out of it?" or "would you do it for me?" does it matter ? you should just want to be a good person and help people out just because you have the ability to so . do you know i asked one of my acquaintances last week if they donated to Haiti and they said, "nah , i don't have any family out there." and they were dead serious . what ? how is that right in any way ? i mean don't get me wrong . everyone isnt rude and self-centered . just a few. i mean even i am sometimes. but i only am AFTER i get acquainted with the selfish people (not saying it's right). but there are some people that are good all the way down to the core . and i'm not talking about the people that do good JUST to say they've done good. and i'm not talking about the people that remember every favor they've ever done for you (cause if they took the time to remember they didn't really do it from the bottom of their heart, they just do it to look good or so you could do them one too when they need it). there are people that always lend a helping hand regardless of any discouraging matter. that is who i'm working on becoming . that is who we should all work on becoming.